Where did my life go?

[irishblessings]

Brave - thanks for the post. I appreciate the fact that even though I may not be able to be a threat - that you would see their behavior as an inappropriate breach of boundaries.

The past few weeks I have probably communicated with XH more than normal. I have had to recognize that he has expertise in some areas that I don't and by not communicating I am probably hurting my son. Case in point - my son is being approached by college coaches to pay basketball next year. My XH was a D1 basketball player and he "speaks" their language. I also know, though - that my son will turn to me in helping him make the decision. He trusts me and he knows that I KNOW him better. It's taken a little while to get there but I'm not going to beat myself up.

Son's last regular season game is Friday. They play at a school that is in my school corporation. I completely DREAD the arrival of the matching shirts because I know that many people in that school are not even aware of the divorce. But I will make it through - I love my son.

I know you all will probably be glad when this season is over:) Next up - graduation and wedding THEN a break in the run-ins:) Thanks for your patience!