Great point! I never thought of it that way!

I guess I have always been eager to please and prefer to avoid confrontation. I should start to stick up for myself when it comes to him. I have been walking on eggshells since the bomb trying not to ruffle his feathers while letting him trample all over me!

Next time he threatens me with L or going ahead and filing for D, I will tell him to do what he needs to do because I am not gonna tolerate being threatened or disrespected anymore. Especially when I have given him no reason whatsoever to treat me this way.

Thanks MrB!! smile

Me31 H33
M11
T15
S10, D4
H deploys 01/11
H R&R two weeks 10/11
ILYBNILWY/sep 12/11
homecoming 1/12
pos D 1/13

Let the "real" battle begin!!