Thanks cadet -you're right about the threads -i'm having to use my phone due to problems with my internet and its a nightmare trying to navigate the site so was easier to start a new one! i accept the point tho and will stick with this one! i have read DB and read the threads,even managed to scrape enough together for some coaching! the money i would spend would be the money we agreed upon when i moved out. when he was saying he wanted me to move back in, i guess it just seemed a bit of a waste. I thought we were moving towards that simce the first week of jan - he was making all the right noises, he loved me, i was the one, wanted me back home. He took me away for the weekend for valentine's and we had a wonderful time.
I don't know what happened - yesterday morning we spoke and everything was fine, then yesterday evening he told me he must be shallow because all he can think of is me 'wobbling around' (i went up a dress size when we first got married,long since lost). He was having doubts again and so we're obviously not going to work out and he's back to wanting to send off the divorce papers. I tried to call him once today (I know I shouldn't have) and now I guess the best thing to do is nothing as far as he's concerned? just get on and buy some furniture! i find it hard - I don't have any family and my friends don't understand why I'm bothering. I really appreciate you guys taking the time to read and respond.
