Thanks everyone!! 1st day was actually really good... I got there a little late after trying to get 2 kids and myself dressed, feed and out the door by 7:00 (something that I haven't done myself in over a year, let alone with 2 kids!) But my boss was totally chill about it. I've got a lot of work ahead of me to get this place in regulation shape (the previous director let it go to sh!t and they've lost a lot of clients because of it), but I'm up for the task!
Haven't heard from H all day. He usually would have called or text me to wish me luck on my first day... but he's not *my* H anymore (he's my H that's been abducted my aliens!)
I really like what nhmom said up there, and I hope she's right about some of it. Even though I logically know that H's crisis is about *him* not *me*, it's hard to not take it personally.... that's where my detaching efforts need to improve.
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12