I could be wrong but I think now is the time you should be posting more...
It's great that you are feeling a little bit different, hopefully a little bit less angry and resentful...
I am curious though, what does letting go of the past look like for you?
It isn't like you can just say poof, this doesn't bother me anymore, and actually have it not bother you...
What does forgivness look like to you?
What does unconditional love look like to you?
I agree with what 25 said.
I will also share with you, even though some people don't think it matters, Mach was married once. His W had 2 A's. You won't find his sitch in a thread, because he doesn't have one. You will find bits and pieces of wisdom, growth, and understanding in his many many posts. They are worth the read.
And though you didn't ask, I will tell you also, the second man that Mach described, the one who allows his SO to be her own person and doesn't do everything in the world for her, is a much more attractive type of man.
What sort of man do you want to be?
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
