Another poster to read is sandi2 and her original sitch, IF you want to get a glimpse of what W's side of things might look like....Lord it opened up my eyes and also really helped to bring me to compassion and empathy, and my role in my sitch...
It is also very helpful to keep me from getting in my own way, as I tend to want to fix things ASAP and get on with life.
In the depths of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer. - Albert Camus
Uncertainty is the very condition which impels people to unfold their powers.-Eric Fromm
