Good luck roro. I know it's hard to hear. Maybe you can mentally prepare for this. Do something fun/ny before and/or after this. When my H talks about separating our bills and our future apart, I just roll w the punches. I've gotten the nerve to say "ok!" with a smile on my face as if he just said, I'll go pick up dinner for us.

Remember it reversable smile. Hope that helps

M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017