I was also starting to get concerned that I'm getting far too obsessed with this whole sitch, I've had enough self control to stop myself contacting her everyday but I know it comes out when we do speak.

Question for you all, what can I do to help this sitch? We're not in piecing as such as she is not giving it 100% but is trying a bit. In fact she was the one who wanted to change our talks from fortnightly to weekly. I've got the impression she is considerably confused and she has stated that quite a lot as well to me and MC.
So what should I do? In our talks it's quite hard to get her to open up but she's not telling me anything new when she does. I get that I need to detach and be patient but 2 weeks ago she even stated that I was too defensive at MC as we're supposed to be getting it sorted together!

What can I do extra to help the sitch apart from what's already being said?