Thanks barely, it takes a lot of beating but eventually I'll get almost anything... lol I greatly appreciate the kind words! :-)

I have to take a second to give Cheryl at the DB center a quick plug. Just had my first call with her and feel a lot better about things as a result. Obviously I am keeping down the detachment road and continue to GAL, with a side of letting go of the past (which is a huge hurdle for me to conquer, thanks also to 25yearsmlc for your advice on this).

In short, if you haven't had the opportunity to speak with a DB coach I highly reccomend it, I found the discussion very helpful.

Soooo I probably won't have an awful lot to say here until my W reaches out to me if and when that ever happens. In the meantime I will try to help everyone out as best I can. Good luck to all in your respective sitch's!


me 38
W 30
T 3
M in 05/2010
Separated 08/2011
Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8
I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5
Anxiously waiting on the judge!