I'll start my second thread by saying "those don't listen have to feel". For any newbies that stumble upon this, don't be like me, stick to the DB principles and listen to the advice provided by all the kind people here and save yourself much unnecessary grief. When you have the urge to "think", grab the 37 steps and read them again, I wish I had... Here is my first thread:
There had been some positive strives in my sitch up to Valentine's day, and then I made a mistake by sending my W and emotionally charged photo via text that set her off. I haven't communicated with her since. As such it has been a week, and that is a new personal "best" for me, in terms of trying to follow the 37 steps and LRT. I will logging any significant positive or negative changes and significant thoughts here.
Good Luck to all in your respective sitch's!
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!
