Indeed it is. Still getting used to my "new skin", though it fits better with every passing moment.
I have also learned that I never really shared some of the more intense parts of my past with the wife or anyone else for that matter. Only recently have I opened-up to my IC and a close friend. So wish I had shared those darker parts of my past with W before this all went to heck.
BTW - loving the Yodaisms.
Me: 44 Bomb: 11/27/11 Divorced:6/12 Life goes on: 6/13