Specifics, please! Can't afford telephone consult!

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Okay, making list of what he said with grain of salt...i am slowly getting this! Who is female shark? Is her last name Sanderson?

Yes, he has the per diem and always has. Should I take myself off that account so he has "privacy." I am afraid he will transfer money from our joint account into it that I cannot access. THIS IS VALID! He would NOT want me to do this. Plus, he is asking for $1100/month PLUS vacation money! For 2 weeks at home! This figure is ABSURD! We don't have that much "play money" now! Really, he is delusional.

So.....
Change locks?
Remove myself from account?
I think the GAL stuff will help me be less emotionally needy and the going DARK will prove I am not the emotionally fragile person he called me in counseling.
There is just NO way to work on the sexual part! LOL!
What is last name of female shark?
I just consulted with Pat so he couldn't use him. I have no intention of filing. Pilots get mean. I heard he is a fortune, but in adultery cases he usually wins attorney fees for the "long suffering wife" as I was told.

Any more ideas for me?
THANKS