PTC, legally, in the state of GA, you can not change the locks as long as his name is on the mortgage. Until he signs a quit claim deed he can come and go as he pleases and break every boundary. You would have to take further legal action to keep him out.

There is no clear answer to any of this. He is not only lying to you, he's lying to his own parents. That says something huge. He is ashamed of what he is doing. Your S16 knows about OW, right? He expects that your son is going to keep this secret for him? If so, that is sick and bad parenting. I hope he hasn't done that.

Pilots are a breed aren't they? LOL. Their poo don't stink, they are almost gods in their own minds. All that on the surface, yet every pilot I know either has a drinking problem, anger issues, infidelity issues, porn addiction, or financial difficulties from living a grandiose lifestyle. It's a strange thing to watch from the sidelines. Being in the middle of it must be like being in a vortex.

One question I just thought of. When was your h officially diagnosed with depression and what help is he getting for it?


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!