Specifics, please! Can't afford telephone consult!

[mishka422]

PTC, listen to 25. She is the absolute master of this approach. I'm not saying to poo poo what he said, but take it with a grain of salt. There may be truths there but they are also clouded by his feelings of euphoria in this bit of fluff he has going on.

Pat us definitely the shark. My best friend used him and her D was pretty complex and nasty. Just watch the billing and get monthly statements on how your retainer is being used. I couldn't afford him but also, I didn't have a bunch of assets involved. U used the female shark and she was fabulous.

Now, back to your plan of action regarding the finances. If the per diem was not included in your monthly budget then let him have it. As long as its not going to hurt your way of living or your sons' daily living and future then let him have it and watch him sink. He will.......trust me. She thinks she has found a sugar daddy, well money only goes so far but my guess is she will keep asking for more and more until he finally is tapped out. My fear for you is that he will open new cc's that you won't know about and that will become joint debt.

Again, call your L's office and ask how it would affect you if he opened cards you had no knowledge of and what they think of you taking yourself off that one account.