Thats a great point that I never thought of, they were not attached to him, so if he has gone from her life, there is no real hardship or pain to them, if anything my son would be happier if he wasn't involved anymore!
She called a few times yesterday, about the kids, but nothing else, I think she has gone back into her shell for a while, at least I can see whats happening and not think about the whys or reasons for things now, they just are!!
Whatever happens with OM there is always going to be a doubt in her mind, and thats nothing to do with me.
I'm just the smiling, happy, helpful, "ex-husband", who also happens to be her best friend!!
