BF, my W went so far as to tell me about us getting separate condo's in the same complex at some future point so the kids could easily get back and forth to each of our homes to lessen the impact of a D on them.
That was well over a year ago and she's still in our house and has made not steps to become financially independant. So yes, the WAS thinks about A LOT of things but it doesn't mean they'll see them through. Heck, I've thought about plenty of future scenarios without my W, but it doesn't mean I want them.
Hope you have a good day. Playing "tourist" sounds like fun!
Me:45, W:45 S:16 D:13 M:22, T:25 Bomb: July 2010 Putting finances in order for "D" Continue to live in same home-separate rooms