but regardless of what the mc said, your h DID raise some concerns about the marriage and I would not pooh pooh them so easily.
See the thing is, it's empowering to have to work on something inside b/c it means you can do something. If you were a perfect wife and this really is ALL about HIM and has nothing to do w/you
then you are powerless. Do you want that?
Can you see my point? The more work you have to do in yourself, the more empowered YOU are.
What's your husband's love language? And how do you give love?
You would not be the first couple to have to "re-set" the love languages...
just a thought.
(and you still need to protect yourself legally)
It's just that if your h can see some 180s he might think marriage to you
could be better/different. If he doesn't believe that, he may not return.
I hope you get this^^^...
good luck
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
