I did another 180 (n so did he). Before I would've acted on my emotions. I would've believed that if I felt it then it was real. Tonite I told him, I believe you are a great father and that you make yourself available for your kids; however I felt that you weren't making time for them which why asked you to look for a sub. He said that when I called him he had already started looking for a sub but didn't want to tell me because he thought it was something he needed to do on his own. I was shocked! He said he knew that he wasn't going to have enough time w them if he did the class and so he started looking but when I called him he hadn't found one.

We ended the talk and he left. 15min later he called me. Said he wanted to thank me for the way I talked to him. That after everything I still treat him w respect. He even offered to drive back n bring me Starbucks. smile


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017