WHG I tear up when I read your post when they left. No 2x4 from me. I dunno but would she drive u to a doctors appointment if u needed it? I think so. Going dark detaching I think are for u to protect yourself from further hurt. That is how I see it. I still pay all the bills. Should I get W off the phone bills internet health care AAA? What will she learn from that. Life is a better teacher than I am. Until I am told to stop I will continue. Do the kiddos benefit from a new faucet? If u guys don't reconcile there will be a time when u are no longer available and she will have care on her own.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden