Purg,

very profound thoughts. I was especially touched by your comment of H's reality and that is what you were DBing against. It is so easy to focus on what we perceive when that really doesn't matter. Well.. It does but you know what I mean!

I also know what you mean about changing the way you look too much.. Because then it becomes inauthentic. I am that same way. I don't mind trying out a nail polish colour but I am so not a manicured nails kind of girl and doing so wouldn't be true to who I am. Changing up my style.. That I can do!

You are doing so awesome. I admire how much you have learned and grown.

((((purg))))


Me:38.. H:33.
Two beautiful kids S:6 D:3
M:8.. together for 11.
Bomb dropped:10/17/11
Separated:11/07/11