Specifics, please! Can't afford telephone consult!

[mishka422]

I just remembered something else I was going to address.

Your husband's claims that you are 'too nice' have to be the biggest bunch of gooey I have ever heard. But, if that's his issue with you then maybe he is asking for you to be more assertive and not so agreeable. To me, that is a legitimate complaint. Was he possibly calling you a pushover?