My best advice is to steer clear of the dating websites. They really are for hooking up.
Oh, I disagree - EVERYbody is on them these days, you find an assortment just like anywhere else. The nicest boyfriend I had since my divorce I met online - and the most disappointing boyfriend I met while out shopping in my neighborhood.
Yes, there are plenty of guys there looking to hook up - be suspicious of the out-of-towners, the ones who mention pretty feet, the ones who don't post photos, etc. But I've still found it to be a pretty good way to find guys that interest me.
