And fwiw I found that taking it slow sexually, Never hurt a r,
but rushing it sexually often did. I really believe this strongly.
Listen to your gut and stop letting idiots (or exh) "make" you feel bad about yourself.
You are in charge of how you see yourself so don't let that type of input in.
And what are you writing online about yourself that attracts weirdos? Post that you are happy and independent etc...
nothing needy or clingy -- I have 2 siblings who met their spouses online and have been married over a decade.
So it happens.
Hang in there and good luck!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016