absolutely bring up the dependence thing in MC and get it out there.
It's a big issue for you (which I totally get and relate to)
and I'd like HIM to see this move (if you go) as a sacrifice by you, not him.
Make sure he hears you.
Good luck==otherwise you are doing great!
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016