f""Six months of getting back on a page where you treat her the way that any wife should be treated does not even scratch the surface of the years, the intrinsic devaluing that occurs when you're systematically mistreated for such a stretch of time. """
I am not buying this right now. For me I did mistreat my H, but not 100% of the time. Maybe only 15% of the time. He took a vow to speak up if he was hurt; to be honest with me, not to just walk out the door.
Loved the rest of the piece. I just have a hard time balancing what I need to own and what is also not my fault.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13