I took her hint as when she asked me for some time to think, when I left the house under the guise of our both working on our relationship, when I left to do the right thing by her and the kids. Inherent problem is, she was already frolicking with the OM over a month prior to this happening. I have documentation of their colluding on strategies to keep me out of our house 100% in my name. So she basically "tricked" me out of the house I built for our family to stabilize her living arrangement and get me out of the way so she could get her affair on without my meddling. Nice right?
So I can't say I took her feelings for granted, I was doing the right thing, had already changed my behaviors, and was full steam wanting to work on my marriage. Problem is, she was lying through her teeth and playing me for a fool in the process.
I can't say that I'm a victim here, more like a dumba$$...
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me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!
