"I know that my actions pushed her into the arms of another man, I don't dispute that. HOWEVER, the way the she went into that relationship and the way that she handled effectively after the point she decided she was "done" without making that clear to me, was totally inappropriate."
She probably did try to tell you what was going on but you didn't want to listen. Be honest now, what would she have had to do before in order to get you to listen. You probably would have just dismissed her like the rest of the LBS did. It's natural because the LBS doesn't even imagine D as being an option. So you take their feelings for granted.
Just MHO.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
