Rick, it's nice to know that my H isn't the only one who mumbles to himself... He's never done this before so there's no predecident for what I should do when he's like this. Unfortunately, in the past, if I didn't understand what he was going through- and if he didn't directly ask me for help- I would leave him alone until he did ask. H has told me (during the bomb) that he never felt like I cared because I didn't offer any help or comfort.... Fast forward to now, and I can't 180 that past behavior because H doesn't want to open up to me. It's very frustrating!
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12