((DG))

It's crazy that some of us are hitting that mark. I know it's been a painful year but take some time to reflect.

You've grown so much.. you have so much to be proud of.

I agree that your H's reason for FB is a lie.... but why did you ask him to begin with?

Are you trying to get some form of commitment from him? Are you testing the waters yourself?

I completely understand the feelings of being worth more and the lack of patience.

If you are "done" that is completely fine. There is nothing wrong with it.. as long as it's for you...

...because you need to move on for your reasons.

Not because your H is unable to meet an expectation.

He has his own set of insecurities. His own set of baggage that he will have to work through.

It is up to you if you want to help. It is up to you if you want to be patient.

M(f): 40
D'ed: 8/12

Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.

Love at all costs because you are loved well.