(((Purg))) I know how hard this is. Sometimes I think my W is going to ask me to leave because it is so uncomfortable. My W is doing weird stuff too, like obsessing over the kitchen, she wipes down the counter over and over. I also have heard her mumbled stuff but don't understand what she is saying. Once you are not hurt by what they do or don't do, you have detached.

But now cry and let those emotions out.


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden