Oh and one more tid bit. She confided in me years ago that her mom has had a OM as long as W can remember. I think more than one. One OM called my W to check up on her mom just before she passed.
Does that make this feel normal for her? That it is ok?
The thing that worries me most is my W's personality. She is very determined. When she sets her mind to something she WILL do it. She was valadictorian. Won awards at college. Worked full time during college. Is the youngest person and the only female to ever hold her current position with the company.
If she has made up her mind about D she may never reconsider.
I can't control that. I get it. Just work on DB for me. If she notices then thats good. If not then thats good too.
