It's better that it happened this way instead of just jumping into bed with him. The divorce recovery classes I've gone to had something interesting on this. They said emotional intimacy stops growing once you start having sex. The relationship just becomes about the sex.
It makes sense. XW and I started having sex right away and there are lots of things I never really learned about her. Now that I can't have her I want to know those things weird.
I just got out of a six week relationship where we had sex five of the seven dates. Just what guys want right?
I got bored right away and when things started to get complicated I discovered I had no real interest in her as a person. Maybe I would have if I'd had to wait and get to know her first.
Me: 47, Ds 17-13, D final 6-11 http://tinyurl.com/yk4e2tz http://tiny.cc/thread2 http://tinyurl.com/ydtphqu http://tinyurl.com/thread4 http://tinyurl.com/3sm78k6 http://tinyurl.com/thread6
