Without going into details, I listened without defending, and tried my hardest to speak without offending. I think for the most part, I did pretty well.
That is a great theory to stick to.
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Originally Posted By: 10
The last thing the pastor left me with to think about is something that's been said to me dozens of times and is oft-repeated here on the board - take it one day at a time. Easier said than done, but I'm working on it.
Sometimes it is hour by hour...
And the rough days, are minute by minute.
I'm glad to hear your Father is doing better.
As far as the apology, I would recommend that you take some time. And really reflect what you think your role is.
Take some time sober, to really see how things are different before you can assume how they could be different.
Feel the emotions of that, and let them become part of you, instead of just words coming out of your mouth.
