Hey BF, hope you're doing OK this morning.

FWIW, on the dating topic, if you're not ready, I wouldn't worry about it. Also, in my various research online I saw several lawyer's websites who recommended not dating as long as the marriage is still in place. There's probably some legal ramifications to this if it ever gets to a D.

The most important thing is how you feel and what your goals are. I just found that information interesting during one of my lower points.

Take care,


Me:45, W:45
S:16 D:13
M:22, T:25
Bomb: July 2010
Putting finances in order for "D"
Continue to live in same home-separate rooms