Thanks bklyn!! Glad you caught my 'vain' typo- gotta love auto correct on the iphone smirk Btw- where is your new thread? You were at a crossroads of sorts, just want to make sure you're doing ok smile

I never thought about OW looking more 'complicated' as opposed to 'desirable'... Maybe you're on to something there?

Ok, so without too much 'fun $' available after my gas-guzzleing trip, what can I do to shake things up a bit? I've got some new clothes (in my smaller size) thanks to some thrift store shopping in FL. I want to lighten my hair, but salon highlights are too pricy right now, and I'm afraid of a bottle job. I usually flat iron it b/c H mentioned that he liked it (as opposed to the wavy/frizzy mess it has become after 2 pregnancies- used to be stick straight blonde before my boys- now it's dark red and wavy). I curled it for my boudoir photos- a la Marilyn Monroe, maybe just doing something like that could inspire a second look..... Mmmmm, what to do, what to do?

I know we aren't supposed to do things with the hopes of getting them back, bi I would love to look/say/ or do something that makes him do a double take.


M-31, H-31
T-9, M-7
S-6, s-20mth
sep 8/1/11
ILYNILWY 11/29/11
Creating separation papers.
Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12
H moves out 1.20.12