It is not vain of you you should look as hot as possible. Always wear sexy underwear. It makes you feel better on the inside.
Your H is gonna need a little while to get over his OW but I think its worth it that he cant be with her. I think it makes her too complicated rather than more desirable. Plus you are gonna look sexier and sexier. Can you do anything to get him to notice you, change your hair a little?? Just always look hot around him, there is no way he could have been attracted to you 5 months ago but not today.
---- M 39 H 35 D5,D4 M 4 T 9 ILYBNILWY 5/18/11 Left 7/11/11 Divorced 12/1/13