Will time and distance help her with forgiveness and trust? When we are divorced will that make any difference. She has made it clear that this relationship needs to end. But maybe there is a chance for us in the future she has said. What weight do I give those comments? And if she hasn't forgiven me for the last 16 years why would it change now?
I did ask her last night if she would ever be able to forgive me, she said she wasn't sure. If she did I would know for sure.
Again, thank you for the feedback. We still haven't even discussed the D or finances, I can only imagine how that is going to go.
