Oh man purg! Same here!! Last week his family went thru a crisis. I worked my 180 as far as it could go! I asked him how he was doing. He said he was very sad but his priority is that the kids n I r happy n healthy." WOW!! He pulled a 180 on me!!! His parents were always more of a priority so this was totally not him!

Well when he got home I asked him, what would you like me to do for you, how can I help? He said " call my mom tomorrow to check up on her and make sure you still take the kids to the snow" I said I would and here I am. Oh and I asked him, can I give you a hug? He said yes. For some reason, I'm feeling like a doormat???


M 42 H 39
T10 (-2yrs separation)
S8 D5
DD 7/30/11 (EA&PA)
Reconciled 6/2013
Separation in works 1/2017