mr mr, I'm so sorry to hear what you are going through. Based on her behavior it sounds like although unfortunate it may be a blessing in disguise as far as allowing you closure. I almost wish I could get one of these now to convince me just to force me to "cut of the snakes head" so to speak.

I will be thinking about and praying for you man...

me 38
W 30
T 3
M in 05/2010
Separated 08/2011
Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8
I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5
Anxiously waiting on the judge!