feeling like giving up.....former DBing against OW

[mishka422]

ITM, I'll tell you honestly, sometimes the board can feel like it's holding you in one place. Of course, as you know, it can also be a great place to dump some emotion and get some guidance. Only you can decide if you need to step away or not.

I understand the frustration of STBXH not doing his part. It's a feeling like he has totally abandoned all responsibility and left you holding the bag. In a lot of ways, he has. Don't doubt it for a moment. He will always have a connection to his S14 however the majority of men don't have that 'nurturing' side so they don't feel the emotions of that withdrawl. I'm not saying that is what is happening with your STBXH, I'm just saying that is what I have seen happen very often especially with WAH's.

We're here for you. Stay strong and concentrate on you!