I'm sorry, I haven't had the time to go through and read up on everything with your sitch, but if I am correct is your W pregnant by the OM? If so, that must be the biggest slap in the face, ever. I actually have a friend who left her H for OM and got pg by him within a month and she and H hadn't even filed yet. Talk about hurtful!
Keep your chin up, you are doing a good thing by being a rock for your kids. They need that right now.
As for your W, I just shake my head.....
"Everyone you meet has baggage. Find someone who loves you enough to help you unpack." ¤Formerly DelinquentGurl¤
Why yes DG she is pregnant by OM, and in Wisconsin you can't get a divorce if she is pregnant. Funny thing though, she seems convinced that I am the one slowing our divorce. She is also convinced that I want the baby. Can you say crazy! !!! Then yesterday she texts that her and OM are in love and want to do things right. Ya I think that ship has definitely sailed. Just not dealing with her craziness anymore.
mr mr, I'm so sorry to hear what you are going through. Based on her behavior it sounds like although unfortunate it may be a blessing in disguise as far as allowing you closure. I almost wish I could get one of these now to convince me just to force me to "cut of the snakes head" so to speak.
I will be thinking about and praying for you man...
me 38 W 30 T 3 M in 05/2010 Separated 08/2011 Stephchildren (all hers) SS17, SS12, SD8 I filed 8/27, she countered I filed response 9/5 Anxiously waiting on the judge!
Closure would be great Broken, and intellectually I am very close but emotionally I haven't been able to make that 18 inch journey from my head to my heart. I still miss her a lot, and when I see her I can't imagine anything more beautiful ...........and then she opens up her mouth and unfortunately the beauty fades. I am currently arranging things so that I don't have to see her very often which has been quite challenging with children. I am told that with time closure will come and I can say that I can see it off in the distance. I pray for no more detours and smooth passage to the other side.
Some days I feel like I am on the bumper cars.....I am just cruising along having a good day when all of a sudden out of nowhere BAM, slammed in the side be the W! I got off of the roller coaster and on to the bumper cars!
I think there should be a DB kit we could buy that would include the following: -seat cushions for the roller coaster -paddles for out boat on uncharted waters -Dramamine for the coaster and boat's ups and downs -a helmet for the bumper cap sideswipes -snacks for those of us who forget to eat -a magic pill that makes us detach and act 'as if' nothing bothers us
MrMr, you continue to be in my prayers. My heart goes out to you and your kids. (((())))
M-31, H-31 T-9, M-7 S-6, s-20mth sep 8/1/11 ILYNILWY 11/29/11 Creating separation papers. Discover H has feelings for BFF, she does too 1/11/12 H moves out 1.20.12
Made Stromboli with the kids last night, we had a blast until we had to clean up the mess :-) D6 was crying at bedtime because she missed mom, those moments kill me. Why should she suffer for this.....it's so unfair! Wish I could time travel ahead till this mess was over, but tben again maybe I need this time to heal. Just wish I had someone to hang out with that understood all this bs, any of you LBSers feel like coming to Wisconsin? The weather is great :-)
Ok, so here's where I am tonight, I'm home........alone.......cleaning up after a great weekend with the kids, thinking about W and OM spending time with my kids tonight........and right now it's killing me. W picked up kids tonight and she sent a text saying if they behaved they would be making brownies when they got home......and while I am happy about them having a good time with mom, why the h*ll does it have to be this way? I know it is this way, but why? Bad night ......dying inside.........broken.......feel like humpty dumpty, where are all the kings horses and all the kings men? I need to be put back together again!
