Thank you 321, I hear you. But my S isn't really going through a mlc. He is remembering me as the volatile girl that he grew to ... hate, with the catalyst of it all occuring in Thailand.
He has not laid eyes on me since.
His way of dealing with stuff is to shut off to it, completely.
He is just so mean and cruel now. I've done some to deserve it. I guess I'm just really scared of what it will be like in person when he gets back.
I've not yet had to see the 'snake eyes' or heard that cold tone. It's all been in email.
