Waiting for the tides to change - 2

[purgatory]

Sounds like you had great success at the thrift store!!

As far as your friend's H- don't discredit his thoughts about H wanting to come home at some point, but don't put all your hopes on his statement either. He's a guy, your H is a guy- we all know that they think differently that women do, so maybe he sees something that you never could. I have become convinced that the 'higher power' puts people in our path when we're ready or need to hear their message.... remember 2thepoint's W visitor in the hospital- that was just too interesting to be a coincidence.

Labug gave you a great question to think about- you don't have to tell us, here on the board, your answer but it's something you should answer for yourself. I've been thinking about that as well, and I've a few opportunities to take advantage of a date. I would love to get a little confidence back from the flattery from a man... but I have decided for myself- that as long as I want to save my M, I will remain faithful. I know that there is nothing that has already been done that *I* can't forgive, but I can't predict if H would be so forgiving if we were to ever reconcile.... it comes down to the fact that I can can control my actions and my reactions to the events of this sitch- I can't assume that H will do the same.

2 more days until you see your babies... that's 2 more days to GAL for yourself!! How's your plans for the boudoir photos coming?? I know that I had a great time playing around with lingerie that I would NEVER normally wear.... and I got a great satisfaction knowing that H might see them one day!