When my H first walked out, he was mean and very cold to me. I ignored it and killed him with kindness. Because I was the better person. I remember him looking me straight in the face, his eyes were so cold saying some horrible things to me. I kept telling myself, this is not my H, it's an alien.

It was hard for me, but I kept praying for him and us. Now we are piecing our relationship back together.

Hang in there!


H: 49
W: 47
D: 6
M: 6 1/2 yrs
H: Bomb #1 6-2010
H: Bomb #2 7-2011
H: Separated: 7-11-11
Reconciling 2-2012
Separated: 1-31-15 (I asked him to move out)