My Sitch/any better ideas than going dark?

[labug]

You will hear it said around here that we start this DB thing to save our marriage but end up saving ourselves. It's like the 12-Step groups, you may come in blaming another for your problems but if you really work the program, you turn the focus on yourself, realize your role in things and then work to and change the only person on this planet you have the power to change-you.

You, too may get there.