Purgatory,

Thanks for the information. It is very helpful. Many of these things don't apply since he has not come home since he got back from the business trip. His things are still here though, which also makes it hard not to go into his closet and smell his clothes.

I have been praying to God for strength and guidance and to soften my husband's heart and restore our marriage. That is all I have the strength to do at this point.


Me- 43
H- 45
Married - 3 yrs
Together (off and on) 9 yrs
No kids
Bomb- 9/2011
Separated - 2/1/12
Filed for Divorce - 2/10/12