read Sandi's post to you again. Maybe ask your w if she ever intends to let go of any of your mistakes....you have put up with too much and there ought to be a statute of limitationa on your "sins" and oh btw, SHE"s not kind to you.
Originally Posted By: sandi2
What if your W never gets passed what happened when you were drunk? She's held this over you all these years and continues to bring it up. But it's not just that one mistake, it's every thing you try to do and she cuts you down or discourages you from having any hope of better times. Can you live like that? If you knew she would never forgive you and if she never changed from the way she is right now, would you stay in the M?
I can't say much about the Move except you need to assert yourself at work and get out of Alaska. And stand up to your w. Don't tolerate the crap treatment b/c it's not attractive to be around a doormat
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it's confirming that you deserve it. You don't. No one deserves it this long.
see if you can find "Navy"s thread about being in the trenches. He's stuck in a situation where his w blames him for things he didn't even do...and it's a drag .
what do you think your sons think of the relationship they see between you two?
they are watching more than you realize and may be glad to be at school instead...is that what you want them to think of m?
imagine life without her, but with you being happy...
what does that look like? Can you describe it in some detail HERE?
Okay...so,
can you create any of that in your life, now?
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
