In regards to the move, we were moved here with a corporate move. Meaning they pay for everything including any loss on the sale of the home. Since we bought in 2008, the market of course is down. If we sold it ourselves we would stand to lose well over 100K. If I wait until they company moves me then we are guaranteed to make what we paid for the house in 08 since the company will buy it from us. I have discussed selling the house ourselves. W doesn't want that and she doesn't want me to go to Dallas with her. She has said she won't ever leave Dallas and we may have a relationship in the future but it will be that I will live in KY and she will be in Dallas, and I can commute to see her. By the way, she has never lived in TX, I hope she likes it there.
There is still a slim chance the company will move me this summer, if not they have guaranteed that I will be moved next summer. If I thought selling the house and moving to D would help I would do it. Right now I think my W just wants to be away from me, so I'm not sure following her to Dallas is the right thing. What do you think, i know 25 mentioned this before.
Ironically it has been my hard work at the job that has me at the top of the list of about 15 personal that are supposed to be moved from here next year. Not all those people will be moved out next year.
I would be willing to lose money on the house to save the marriage. I'm just not sure it will make a difference.
