You may have covered this in a previous post, but what are you doing about trying to get out of AK and move to warmer climes? Your W has said now several times that if you two hadn't moved to AK you wouldn't be divorcing. So any movement at trying to get the heck out of Dodge?

Me51 W53 S17 S14
M22 T25
Bomb-9/11; A-11/11; I move out 11/11

It's easy to find our bottom, it is our top that requires cultivation.

Every rough spot adds to our emotional constitution. -Barney Fife