W just left for work and knows I have anxiety attacks when she works Sat nights as we've had lots of EA issues with OM hanging out there Saturday nights. She told before she left me her planned time to leave and what to expect and that she wasn't expecting OM tonight (she told me and D that's over and I think there's been no contact for 2 weeks). Said she may stay for a drink to unwind, but that's it and did I think that was reasonable. This was all unprompted by me, so I just thanked her for thinking of my feelings and checking in. I didn't approve or complain, just told her thanks for letting me know. I can't read anything into this, I know, but at least she's thinking about it and seems like she's trying to work with me there. She's been texting me when she stays asking me if I mind, but I just tell her thanks for letting me know. Oh well, at least I don't feel like she's acting out at me in spite anymore. Progress on my part of letting her go.
M 43, W 40 T 22. M 14 D 14, S 9, S 8 DD 11/21/11 Retrouvaille 4/13/12--and the healing begins as we begin a new journey together!